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Time and Place

Pro God's Timing

In those days a decree went out … And Joseph also went up from Galilee, from the town of Nazareth, to Judea, to the city of David, which is called Bethlehem, because he was of the house and lineage of David, to be registered with Mary, his betrothed, who was with child. And while they were there, the time came for her to give birth. And she gave birth to her firstborn son and wrapped him in swaddling cloths and laid him in a manger, because there was no place for them in the inn. Luke 2:1-7

God’s plans are great and vast; but His fulfillment of those plans is specific and detailed, personal and positional. The events, and places, and times of our life are not random -- even if they uproot us or come at inconvenient moments and take us into places where there seems to be no room or acceptance for us. We have not been chosen at random. God has a plan for even our heritage and ancestry. We are not here by happenchance. He has called us specifically to the culture and current events of our life. Yet, we cannot be fully useful if we are not aware of the events and circumstances around us. We cannot be responsive to the needs and issues of our time if we do not pay attention or engage with the world around us.

Whether it is conditions in Africa, the Middle East, our Nation’s Capitol, our surrounding community, or our own back yard, we cannot bring the love of Christ into the world if we are not actively engaging in that world. The headlines must be our call to prayer – not our source of cynicism or condemnation. The broken families and lonely people in our communities are calling to our very souls to reach out with the love of Christ and a loaf of bread. And the unwelcoming streets of crime and fear in the cities where money and power are brokered and people are ignored, used, and thrown away are crying out for God’s Presence – to be recognized, loved, and cared for.

It is “for such a time as this” [see Esther 4:14] that each one of us has been placed where we are in the history of the Kingdom. Will you go – even at inconvenient times or to unwelcoming places to fulfill God’s great journey for your life?

Let's DO something about it:

• This week before you get out of bed ask the Holy Spirit to show you who or what situation you are to be specifically praying for.
• Then ask the Holy Spirit to make you aware of any person or situation that you encounter during your day that you can minister to in some way.
• Finally at the end of your day, ask the Holy Spirit to show you what opportunities you embraced, and which ones you missed during the day.

In the Wilderness

Pro Growth

And the child grew and became strong in spirit, and he was in the wilderness until the day of his public appearance to Israel. Luke 1:80

For John to fulfill his calling he had to grow and become strong in spirit. This took isolation and intention. John did not seek out or settle in places that promised fame, fortune, or prosperity – quite to the contrary, he stayed in the wilderness until the day– the day that God had established, the day God had determined as the right time. Until the day when John was prepared, physically as well as spiritually, and God’s plans were ready to be set in motion.

We often grow impatient with our desire to serve – or expecting others to “step up to the plate.” But God’s plans take time, and if we want to participate fully in those plans we must be intentional about growing and becoming spiritually strong. That means we must be willing to get out of the limelight and settle in the wilderness for a while.

We must also be willing to allow others to settle into their wilderness times as well. Luke tells us that John’s neighbors expected great things from him, (Luke 1:66). We can imagine their thoughts and comments as the boy grew in obscurity, and apparent “ordinariness.” But John was faithful to God’s plans for his life – and one can suppose that his parents, the ones who had been blessed by God’s very real Presence and Power, may have encouraged him to stay true to his own course.

To serve God fully we must be committed to growth. Our own growth, and the growth of others. Occasionally we must seek the wilderness.

Let's DO something about it:

Fame, fortune, and prosperity – they all sound much more enticing than “wilderness.” Yet, if we want to experience real growth, real spiritual strength, and real fulfillment of God’s call on our life, we have to decide where our focus lies.

• Consider the concepts of “growth” and “spiritual strength.” What do they mean to you? How important are they to your daily life?
• Prayerfully consider how willing you would be to give up the “limelight” of fame, fortune, or prosperity for the loneliness and anonymity of the wilderness?
• Is there someone you know who needs encouragement during their “wilderness” experience?

The Prophet’s Calling; the Messiah’s Mission

Pro Clarity of Purpose

Blessed be the Lord God of Israel, for he has visited and redeemed his people and has raised up a horn of salvation for us in the house of his servant David…that we, being delivered from the hand of our enemies, might serve him without fear, in holiness and righteousness before him all our days… Luke 1:68-69; 74-75

Zechariah’s prophecy states that God had visited and redeemed his people so that they might serve him without fear, in holiness and righteousness, and that his own son John would be a prophet to prepare the way for the fulfillment of that cause;

And you, child, will be called the prophet of the Most High; for you will go before the Lord to prepare his ways, to give knowledge of salvation to his people in the forgiveness of their sins… Luke 1:76-77

and that the Messiah was coming to bring light into the darkness of their lives.

…because of the tender mercy of our God, whereby the sunrise shall visit us from on high to give light to those who sit in darkness and in the shadow of death, to guide our feet into the way of peace.” Luke 1:78-79

Through the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, Zechariah saw that God’s plan was not to bring fame, fortune, or affluence into their lives. God’s movement, born from His tender mercy was to provide a way to peace. John's calling was to bring the truth of God's plan to people who were living in the shadows of false expectations so that the Messiah could bring light into their darkness and peace to their souls.

When we acknowledge God’s plan and perceive His movement in our lives, and then follow through with our own attitudes and obedience, we begin to comprehend the ways of the Messiah in our world and to see with clarity our own personal calling. Who is God sending us to? Who do we know that needs to hear the truth of God's tender mercy and experience the light of forgiveness, the light of hope, the light of peace?

Let's DO something about it:

Are we looking for the fame, the fortune or the affluence of false promises in our own relationship with Christ, or are we looking for the light so that we can shine that light in the way of service to others?

• Prayerfully consider how clearly you perceive your holy and righteous calling to serve God by serving others. Then consider how fully you are fulfilling that calling.
• Ask God to show you one person you can reach out to today who may be hidden in the shadow of regret, hopelessness, or anger. Ask the Holy Spirit for one specific way that you can bring the light of forgiveness, hope, or peace into that person’s life. Now go do it!

Spirit Filled Comprehension

Pro Redemption

The immediate result of Zechariah’s non-traditional, neighbor-shocking naming of his son John, was that Zechariah’s impediment of speechlessness was dramatically reversed – not just relieved, but reversed. He was filled with the Holy Spirit and began prophesying! From silence to revelation. From his previous words of doubt (see Luke 1:18-20) to his restored words of praise and comprehension. Zechariah’s period of silence led to his act of obedience which resulted in his ability to comprehend God’s Presence and Plan in his life. By remembering the words of God spoken “by the mouth of his holy prophets from of old” [v.70] (in other words, the Old Testament) and recalling the promises and the covenants made [v.72], the Holy Spirit enabled Zechariah to see God’s great unfolding plan.

And what was God’s plan?

“that we, being delivered from the hand of our enemies might serve him without fear…” v.74

Redemption and purpose – in other words service. Delivered so that we might serve. Saved from mandatory slavery for voluntary servanthood. Our redemption has not given us self-determination, but instead has given us holy and righteous purpose.

Let's DO something about it:

When we remember God’s words by studying scripture, and recall His promises by appropriately interpreting the Word, we become more aware of God’s movement in our own time.

• Consider how familiar you are with God’s Word and His Promises. What steps can you take to become more acquainted with the scriptures and more proficient in their appropriate application?
• Prayerfully ask the Holy Spirit to show you what promises God has fulfilled in your own life.
• Spend a few moments meditating on Luke 1:74-5,

that we, being delivered from the hand of our enemies, might serve him without fear, in holiness and righteousness before him all our days.

Ask God to show you how you can serve Him today.

Starting New Traditions

Pro New Ways

Behold, I am doing a new thing; now it springs forth, do you not perceive it? I will make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert. Isaiah 43:19

Tradition. It connects us to our roots and reminds us who we are. But when tradition exists for its own sake, at best it becomes cold and meaningless and just something we do because we have always done it; at worst it becomes little less than an idol, the focus of our devotion and fidelity.

When it came time to name John (the Baptizer) his parents called together friends and family for the naming ceremony. This is a very important event in Jewish life. The child’s family, religious, and community identity is established. Equally important is the name itself. It is tradition that a son is named after a family member to keep the name alive. Zechariah and Elizabeth were advanced in years. They were probably not going to have more children – this son was a miracle. Surely he would be named after his father. But,

When it was time for Elizabeth’s baby to be born, she gave birth to a son. And when her neighbors and relatives heard that the Lord had been very merciful to her, everyone rejoiced with her. When the baby was eight days old, they all came for the circumcision ceremony. They wanted to name him Zechariah, after his father. But Elizabeth said, “No! His name is John!”

“What?” they exclaimed. “There is no one in all your family by that name.” So they used gestures to ask the baby’s father what he wanted to name him. He motioned for a writing tablet, and to everyone’s surprise he wrote, “His name is John.” Instantly Zechariah could speak again, and he began praising God.

Awe fell upon the whole neighborhood, and the news of what had happened spread throughout the Judean hills. Everyone who heard about it reflected on these events and asked, “What will this child turn out to be?” For the hand of the Lord was surely upon him in a special way. Luke 1:57-66

At the moment Zechariah broke with tradition and obeyed what God had told him, he was miraculously healed. His mouth that had been “shut up” months before when he questioned God’s intentions now is loosed again, and result was everyone’s astonishment and wonder. That’s what happens when we do “new things” in God’s name. People wake up and take notice. A ritual becomes fresh and full of meaning. Anticipation and excitement replace normalcy and tradition. People begin to look for and talk about what God is doing.

I love this little story. It is often over looked, tucked in-between accounts of Jesus’ conception and birth. John’s life mission was to prepare the way for the Messiah, he was the forerunner of something new coming. Of course God would choose to shake things up, grab people’s attention! Too often we grow comfortable and complacent in the way “the church” does things. From music to missions, congregation to ceremony, ministry to membership we often grow so attached to the “way things have always been done” we miss seeing and experiencing the new things God is purposing in our midst. “If it’s not broke don’t fix it” drowns out the possibility of “Behold, I am doing a new thing; now it springs forth, do you not perceive it?”

Perhaps we should occasionally emulate Zechariah and spend a season staying quiet, observing what God is doing in and among us, so we can respond in true obedience. Obedience to God, not to tradition or the expectations of others, but to what God has shown us. We may be amazed at the healing and testimony that results.

Let's DO something about it:

Traditions serve an important part in our history and culture. They remind us who we are and give us connection with our past. But they can also prohibit us from growing and prevent us from fully engaging in God’s “new things.” They can also cause us to become exclusive and narrow-minded. The key is to find a healthy balance between celebrating traditions while keeping an open mind and heart to new expressions of what those traditions represent.

• Hebrews 4:12 says, “the word of God is living and active”. The opposite of living and active is dead and stagnant. Consider the impact of these descriptors. Consider ways you can keep the expression of your faith in your church, work, family, attitudes, words, and life alive and active.
• Think about some of the “traditional ways” you are particularly holding on to: in your relationships, your attitudes, your family, work or church. Consider if these practices are enhancing your experiences or keeping you from growing or experiencing new grace and blessing. Consider how and where you can make appropriate adjustments.
• Think about some of the traditions of other families, cultures, or churches that you are aware of – especially those you might tend to “automatically reject.” What is the basis of your rejection? Consider how you could better understand or adapt those practices into actually glorifying Christ as a way of reaching out to others.

Pro Including the Unlikely

Behold, I am the servant of the Lord; let it be to me according to your word. Luke 1:38

The first chapter of Luke gives us a wonderful portrait of some of God’s favorite vessels for His blessings, the unlikely.

…they had no child, because Elizabeth was barren, and both were advanced in years. Luke 1:7

Elizabeth, an old barren woman. In her culture a barren woman was of no worldly usefulness, and one with no visible means of support as she got older – no son to provide for her, no daughter to help her with the rigorous “womanly” duties of her day; and no reason for hope – her physical circumstances prohibited her from changing her situation

Then there is Mary, a young, probably very poor, engaged virgin. Betrothed to a carpenter, this is no “upper crust” girl. God chooses these two unlikely candidates to change history in a totally unorthodox way. That’s the problem with “orthodoxy” – it leaves little room for random acts of Godliness! To one, at a very late (some would say impossibly late) stage of life, He grants her heart’s desire. A child, a son, a fulfillment of her cultural gender. But to the other, His “blessing” could very well have ruined her life… God chose to make her an unwed mother, a condition that no doubt resulted in criticism, outcast and in fact may have endangered her very life. How extremely odd.

How will this be, since I am a virgin? Luke 1:34

I wonder how often we consider the fact that our Savior was born from such unorthodox circumstances. Oh yes, we know and proclaim the virgin birth – it is grounded in our theological sensibilities, but have we grasped the social embarrassment, shame, and scandal of His earthly beginnings? Or, more importantly, have we been inspired by it? Does it motivate us to reach out to, support, encourage, embrace, and include the marginalized in our communities?

Luke tells us that Mary hurried out of town to her cousin Elizabeth’s home. Together they found mutual shelter, support, and encouragement in their “conditions.” We wonder sometimes why the marginalized are reluctant to come to our churches or claim our faith… could it be that we do not provide the comfort and acceptance regardless of their physical conditions or their ability to change their circumstances that they so desperately need? Or perhaps it is because we are only looking at them through our physical eyes, we have shut our spiritual hearts to them. Or perhaps we just don’t see them at all… they aren’t one of “us.” The scriptures tell us that the Holy Spirit caused Elizabeth to recognize Mary’s blessedness as soon as she entered the house. Are we willing to look for blessedness in unlikely places, in unlikely people? God is; it is in the margins that God chooses to change history.

Let's DO something about it:

• Prayerfully read the song of Mary from Luke 1:46-53. Consider that these words were sung by a teenage, pregnant, unwed girl whose future was uncertain. What insight does this perspective give you about God’s choices?
• Ask God to show you who (or what group of people) may be feeling “marginalize” in your community, church, or family. Begin to pray for ways to reach out to them and commit to following through on God’s direction.

The Things You Have Been Taught; Pt. 2

Pro-Truth but Not Afraid of Fiction

It is foundationally crucial to base our faith in the Truth of God’s Word. Likewise, we must remember that we have been totally redeemed by the work of Christ – including our imaginations. We need not fear whimsy, or fairy tales, or stories of fantasy, but instead discern the difference between creative imaginings and destructive rubbish. The truth and power of God --Father, Son, and Holy Spirit – is sufficient to protect our hearts, minds, and faith from fairy tales and imaginary villains and enchantments. Pumpkins that turn into carriages need not scandalize us.

Regardless of our personal tastes, let us stop demeaning our faith by outrageously opposing simple fantasy and fairy tale. The key is to delineate our faith from fantasy, our worship from entertainment. The Word of God is not threatened by Grimm, Spielberg, or even J K Rowling. Far more threatening is the misinterpretation and intentional misuse of God’s Word by false prophets of cheap grace and casual obedience. Let us be scandalized by manipulated scripture, not invented fiction.

I believe that the more we immerse ourselves in the truth, the less threatening fiction becomes. A respected teacher I once had suggested that it is exactly the exposure to the wonders and magic of fairy tales and fantasy, science fiction and novel that opens and trains our mind to be able to accept the wonder and mystery and reality of the Spiritual Realm. If it is not your taste, fine – but please let’s stop maligning the imaginative works of creativity and save our indignation for creations of filth that demean the weak, deprive the poor, destroy beauty and wonder, and manipulate what’s holy.

Let's DO something about it:

• Reflect on C S Lewis’ quote, “Some day you will be old enough to start reading fairy tales again.” What do you think he meant?
• Consider what criteria you put on acclaiming or disclaiming literature, art, music, etc. Is your criteria based in Truth or bias?
• Look at Philippians 4:8-9. Consider defining and writing down your standards for evaluating the arts. What is your primary measure of what is "good" and what is "bad"?

Certainty Concerning the Things You Have Been Taught

Pro Truth

Inasmuch as many have undertaken to compile a narrative of the things that have been accomplished among us, just as those who from the beginning were eyewitnesses and ministers of the word have delivered them to us, it seemed good to me also, having followed all things closely for some time past, to write an orderly account for you, most excellent Theophilus, that you may have certainty concerning the things you have been taught. Luke 1:1-4

The opening words of Luke begin with a declaration of purpose. The author is determined to set forth a factual, eyewitness account of Christ; what he said, did, and how he acted. We have not inherited a faith based on fairy tales, superstitions, or manipulated story. Factual observation and true testimony is the foundation of what we believe, how else can we learn to trust the spiritual and unexplainable elements of our faith if it is not based in reliable truth. As faithful followers of Christ, we must guard the expressions of our faith against falling into superstitious patterns and enchanted prayers. Truly our faith has Godly power, miraculous demonstration, and heavenly application – we don’t need to add fantasy or superstitious patterns to our expressions of faith.

First and foremost Christ-followers must be pro-truth!

Let's DO something about it:

Prayerfully read and reflect on John 8:31 and 14:6.

• What insights do these verses give you regarding the nature of “truth”?
• Spend some time prayerfully reflecting on your own patterns of prayer, or any particular religious phobias or bugaboos you may be holding on to. Ask God to reveal whether they are based on truth or superstition.
• Ask God if there are any changes He wants you to make. Record them and use them for occasional reflection and accountability.

3-2-1 Get Ready!

Christianity has taken a hit in the last few decades... and in some ways, I am afraid to say, rightfully so. The airwaves and sound bites are full of so called "christian rhetoric" which in reality seems to be barely more than a small group of people using the Bible to justify exclusive and often extreme points of view. The prophet Jeremiah laments about such people who "talk" religion, but lack the love and passion for God that holy living requires, "you [the Lord] are near in their mouth, but far from their heart." (Jeremiah 12:2)

I pray that this series may wake us up a bit. I hope it encourages us to examine if what we truly believe is Bible based, cultured based, or fodder for the enemy who delights in seeing Christ ridiculed instead of glorified and whose goal is to drive people away from the King of Kings instead of into His waiting arms. I want to shake things up a bit -- not for the purpose to provoke, but for the purpose of spurring Christ-followers on to greater deeds of love and glory for His Namesake. I do not aim to offend, but some might be offended, so I apologize in advance and ask that this be a place of honest examination and discussion. I encourage your feedback, questions, and comments -- but let's try to keep it honest, civil, and kind on both sides, remembering that it is Christ we represent, Christ we long to draw closer to, and Christ that we want to honor.

So, if you, like me, are tired of letting the fringe represent your faith, let's DO something about today! Let's take back our faith so that we can offer it with clean hands and mind and hearts to the world around us.

Let's DO something about it:

Prayerfully read and reflect on Psalm 24 and Hebrews 10:19-25.

• What thoughts or insights do you get from these passages?
• List any actions or change of heart/attitude the Holy Spirit may have inspired in you.
• Keep this list as a prayer or accountability prompt over the next few weeks as you consider this series.

REALLY, I MEAN IT THIS TIME!

Coming in August!

"Pro Christians"

It seems that everyday we hear in the media and on talk shows what (or who) Christians are against -- anti this, anti that -- but what are the followers of Christ for? Where are the Pro-Christians and what are they doing?

Meanwhile, check out my new blog,

Rule of Life

at http://theruleoflife.blogspot.com

Summer Series

NEW SERIES COMING FOR SUMMER

"Pro Christians" 

It seems that everyday we hear in the media and on talk shows what (or who) Christians are against -- anti this, anti that -- but what are the followers of Christ for? Where are the Pro-Christians and what are they doing?

This summer I will be looking at the Gospel of Luke to determine what Christ was for, and what He expects His followers to be doing about it.

The Lesson of Regrets

The Final Lesson from the Trail

There is one last lesson that I have learned from the trail. Perhaps the ultimate lesson, only recently fully grasped by the death of my mother. That is the lesson of regrets. You see, every trail demands decisions and choices. Each decision we make leads to the next choice we will encounter. To cheat the trail and take a shortcut; to take unfair advantage of a weaker participant; to stop and forfeit the prize in order to aid another runner or hiker; to follow the pack or blaze our own trail. Every decision leads to the ultimate outcome. I have learned that the prize handed out in front of the crowd is pale pleasure compared to the joy of coming in last because you’ve quietly made a better choice – a choice to offer kindness and comfort, or because you took a moment to stop and smell the aroma of wet pine or gape at the amazing grandeur of a valley laid out below you; to stoop and watch a ground squirrel, or decipher a bird call. Rewards that far out weigh the medal that will hang in some closet or lay in some forgotten drawer. In the New Testament, the Apostles talk of "running our race" in a way that will bring us eternal reward, that will not fade away nor become lost (See 1 Corinthians 9:25 and 1 Peter 5:4); and Jesus instructs us to “...not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal." Matthew 6:19-20

Several years ago I was running a trail race in Bonelli Park. The course started with a sharp incline that proceeded to rise up, and then up some more, and then up yet again. By the third incline I was done. My legs and lungs were not in shape for this run and I simply could not continue. Coming from behind me was a woman about my age who had definitely found her stride. As she approached me she could tell that I was spent, so she simply held out her hand, grabbed me by the arm and said, “we’ll do this together.” Because of her I made it to the final peak where the trail blessedly began to descend. Her act of kindness probably cost her a medal – and yes, I still came in dead last, but I finished my race due to her kindness. 

Sitting with my mother in her final minutes last week I came to two conclusions about life on the trail. First: in the end, it is the acts of kindness that matter. They alone are what we remember, what stays with us. Colossians 3:12 says,

Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. 

Secondly, doing the right thing, no matter how hard it may be, will never, never be as hard as living with the regret of not doing it. 

May you travel well your pathways fellow trail runners and hikers.

Lions and Tigers and Bears – Oh MY!

Now I haven't often encountered beasts along the trail, but I know they are out there. My husband has hiked a bit in Alaska and has learned the importance of noticing the signs of bear along the trail. He hiked in the Everglades in Florida and knew the necessity of watching for alligators. He has hiked the high plains and knows to be on guard for snakes.

Sometimes we go places where the dangers are clearly noted – “Beware of snakes on the trail” or other hikers will tell each other of bear or mountain lion sightings. We learn to walk cautiously, look for evidence, and care about and for others along the trail. But the best defense against a beast is to avoid him all together. Stay away from the lairs and pits they dwell in, where they lurk, waiting for their prey; and stay alert for the signs of their prowling about. There are beasts along our life-trails as well. 1 Peter 5:8 tells us to , "Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour."

But despite all our measures, sometime we may find ourselves confronted on the trail. Rule number 1: there is no glory in being devoured. We don’t try to take on the beast alone. Call for help -- there is strength in numbers. Take defensive steps – put on protective gear:

Therefore, put on every piece of God’s armor so you will be able to resist the enemy in the time of evil. Then after the battle you will still be standing firm. Stand your ground, putting on the belt of truth and the body armor of God’s righteousness. For shoes, put on the peace that comes from the Good News so that you will be fully prepared. In addition to all of these, hold up the shield of faith to stop the fiery arrows of the devil. Put on salvation as your helmet, and take the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. Ephesians 6:13-17

And when all else fails, flee for the stronghold:

[God] is my steadfast love and my fortress,

my stronghold and my deliverer,

my shield and he in whom I take refuge,  Psalm 144:2

In the end, our confidence on the trail does not come from weapons or guile, but the knowledge that no beast can stand against the One True Trail Guide!

…. what the ...?

There is of course another hazard along the trail – that is the inevitable dropping of… well… there is just no other way to say it… poop!

Horsey poop
Doggy poop
and even the occasional bear poop (one Yellowstone Park Ranger we knew liked to tell us that the way to distinguish black bear poop from grizzly bear poop – the grizzly had hiker whistles in it ☹.)

Along the trail there are just times when no matter how careful we may be, we just can’t avoid the poop. We suddenly become aware of that familiar odor and realize that we have indeed stepped in it. It doesn’t work to ignore it: we can smell it on ourselves. It doesn’t work to deny it: others can smell it on us. All we can do is admit it, clean up the mess, and get back on tract.

‘Nuff said!

Roots, Ruts, and Rocks

The recent passing of my mother has reminded me of yet another “lesson from the trail.” The lesson of roots, ruts, and rocks.

Someone once said that those of us who long for heaven run the risk of being so “heavenly minded that we are no earthly good.” My mother had the perfect balance of heaven mindedness and earthly focus; knowing that the finish line lay ahead, but if we don’t focus on the step in front of us, we are not likely to make it there in one piece.

Several years ago my husband Greg and I took a hiking trip through New England in the autumn. The route we took in New Hampshire was the aptly named, Frankenstein Cliffs. Now, I don’t remember why they were named that, or who they may have been named for, but it was certainly a MONSTER of a hike. The path ran out of “path-ness” (the quality of being “path-like”) about a mile into the hike, and turned in to literally nothing but miles and miles of roots, ruts, and rocks. Now, let me just state here, that we never finished the hike, and thus, never experienced the cliffs – my sense of humor, sense of adventure, and sense of niceness ran out quickly; but, I did learn some lessons along the way.

The trouble with roots, ruts, and rocks is that they conspire to trip, twist, and injure. Individually they are hazards; together they are trip enders. Like the daily worries and cares that distract us from the bigger plan of our lives, roots will grab your toes as you jaunt along, their twisted gnarls reaching out to trip your every step. Ruts are more insidious. As you hike along, taking in the sights, sounds, and smells of the world around you, oblivious to their threat, they are the unexpected pitfalls and difficulties that suddenly throw us off balance, twisting feet and ankles, buckling our legs and stride, thrashing us to the ground. Then, there are the rocks. Huge obstacles that must be climbed over, negotiated around, and if possible, avoided. They can block our way, or injure us – leaving us scraped, punctured, and bloodied. 

When we encounter a path fraught with roots, ruts, and rocks we may be tempted to give up; but then we will never reach the purpose for our journey.  Or, we keep our heads down, carefully avoiding each obstacle and hindrance; but then we miss the breathtaking views – which after all is the point of the trail. And if we focus only on the finish – our minds set only on the glorious end, our thoughts lost in the clouds, we will most likely find ourselves tripped up, twisted around, and unexpectedly facedown in the dirt. The key is perspective. Inspired by the destination, but focused on the step ahead, we will finish the path, cross the line, and view the breathtaking cliffs.

Along the Frankenstein trail, I learned the importance of depending on the solid walking stick I picked up along the way, (I called it “Ole’ Hickory” – no, it probably wasn’t really hickory, but the name seemed mildly amusing at the time) the guidance of a good map, and the encouragement of my hiking companion, my husband. In the midst of our life’s “Frankenstein trails” we will also need to reach out for the support that comes from relying on the solidity of our faith, the guidance of the Word of God, and the encouragement that comes from true Christ-focused fellowship. 

My mother exemplified, modeled, and lived well this balance. During her 92 years, she encountered the joys and pain of a life well lived. The hardship of poverty, as well as the complicated joy of raising 5 children, and influencing 20 grandchildren and 24 great-grandchildren. She suffered the pain of losing loved ones, including several babies, a grandchild, and my Dad after 50 years of marriage. She nursed children and friends through illness, loneliness, and hardships. She endured conflict, misunderstanding, and sometimes the cruelty that family and friends can inflict on each other. She negotiated the roots, ruts, and rocks – sometimes tripping, occasionally falling, and now and then enduring injury, but always rising again to fully experience the journey. And she embraced it all with faith, grace, and a healthy dose of humor. Always inspired by the prospect of heaven, she never failed to see the importance of the daily journey well travelled. 

Thanks mom!

"I Catched It"

One of my mother's favorite stories was about bubbles. One morning, my mother was blowing soap bubbles while my little girl danced around trying to catch them. As a big bubble settled gently on my daughter's fingertips, she exclaimed, "I catched it! I catched it!" My mother would always cry just a little, when she told the story -- the innocence and joy of the moment always filled her with nostalgic tenderness. So it only seemed appropriate that the day my mother went to heaven my granddaughter and grandson would celebrate her new life in heaven by blowing bubbles up to her.

The Hope of Heaven: a comfort and motivation to those of us who have lost loved ones. Not an empty hope, but a promise fulfilled through the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. As we remained gathered around my mother's bedside my oldest sister reminded us that although we were still seeking for signs of our mother, she was no longer there, she had gone on to fullness of life -- out of the earthly restraint of her weak and worn out body. "Why do you seek the living among the dead"?

Scripture tells us that,

On the first day of the week, at early dawn, the women went to the tomb, taking the spices they had prepared.  And they found the stone rolled away from the tomb,  but when they went in they did not find the body of the Lord Jesus. While they were perplexed about this, behold, two men stood by them in dazzling apparel. And as they were frightened and bowed their faces to the ground, the men said to them, “Why do you seek the living among the dead?  He is not here, but has risen. Remember how he told you, while he was still in Galilee, that the Son of Man must be delivered into the hands of sinful men and be crucified and on the third day rise.” And they remembered his words, and returning from the tomb they told all these things to the eleven and to all the rest. Luke 24:1-9

Because Christ fulfilled the plan of redemption for all men, because He who was without sin, suffered the consequences of all man's sins, those of us who accept His gracious gift have more than hope, we have the assurance of heaven. Jesus said, 

...the Son of Man must be lifted up, so that everyone who believes in him will have eternal life. For God loved the world so much that he gave his one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life. God sent his Son into the world not to judge the world, but to save the world through him. John 3:14-17

So today, on Easter, as we celebrate the fulfillment of God's great promise, somehow I am sure that my mom "catched" those soapy bubbles.

To those who have lost loved ones, I wish you a Blessed Easter.

Saying Goodbye

Smiles Breaking Through Tears: 

Dying is a gradual diminishing and final vanishing over the horizon of life. When we watch a sailboat leaving port and moving toward the horizon, it becomes smaller and smaller until we can no longer see it. But we must trust that someone is standing on a faraway shore seeing that same sailboat become larger and larger until it reaches its new harbor. Death is a painful loss. When we return to our homes after a burial, our hearts are in grief. But when we think about the One standing at the other shore eagerly waiting to welcome our beloved friend into a new home, a smile can break through our tears.  Henri Nouwen; Bread for the Journey

I have come to realize that saying goodbye isn't a one time statement; it is a process. Letting go of someone who has impacted or influenced our lives in significant ways is a slow and gradual adieu -- like watching a boat leave the harbor. We linger on the shore until we only think we can still see the sails, hoping for just one more look, one more chance to wave farewell. But in the end, we must turn, and let the boat sail on to its destination, faithful that it is a beautiful view from both shores. 

To Mama

Dear Mama, 

What an incredible life you have had, and what an amazing woman you were, Ann Scott. Your life is an inspiration for women today. You never let the restrictions of this world define or limit you. You rose above the poverty and circumstances of your youth. With only a high school education, you never stopped learning and educating yourself, and you never let the fact that you were a “just a woman” thwart your aspirations.

Could you have imagined how far you would go in your life? You surpassed the limits put on women and became a respected, admired, leader in your career, your church, and your family. You have met First Ladies, rubbed elbows with Governors and Mayors, and have called great people of influence in this country by their first names! Your work changed the face and future of the state of Colorado.

Could you have imagined that you would be the matriarch of such a grand family? What a marvelous example and heritage you have passed on to your children and grandchildren and even great grandchildren. I am proud to point to you as a role model for my daughters and granddaughter. You have shown us the power of faith in God, and the empowerment of hard work. You have taught us to never be ashamed of who we are and to live in such a way that we will never have reason to be shamed. You were never too busy, too sick, too tired, or too occupied to be there for us when we needed you.

I am blessed to be your daughter.

Sleep gently dear Mama, rest in peace.

Robyn

Ann Scott

September 21, 1917 - April 7, 2009

Lessons from the Trail: Running Together

My friend Pam sent the following observations about my last entry re: Lessons from the Trail: Finish or Camp? I wrote about how my husband had come back on the trail to encourage me after he had already run his race. Pam wrote,

Greg’s love was a picture of God and how He is there, not always rescuing us OUT of the situation but making sure we know he’s there, he is with us, he cares that life is hard, we are not alone, we are loved… no we are cherished and at the moment we know we are cherished, our perspective feels so different. Life can still be tough but we are of value, loved and cherished by the one we love. In the moments when things are good between husband and wife it is a picture, maybe a glimmer, of our relationship with God.

Even though I was not in my best shape (I have previously confessed that I am carrying extra pounds, and have not been faithful to working out and taking care of myself the best I can) when Greg came back on that trail he came to encourage me -- not to deride me for not being in better shape or for not being better prepared for this race; nor to point out my weaknesses; he didn't come to carry me to the finish-line or "excuse me" from finishing (which frankly I would have accepted at that moment, but have regretted later) -- he  simply came out of love, to encourage and empower me to finish the race before me. That is what God does for us. He meets us where we are, and asks us if we want to run with Him. 

What's your answer? 

Lessons from the Trail: Finish or Camp?

Now finish the work, so that your eager willingness to do it may be matched by your completion of it, according to your means. 2 Corinthians 8:11

Last Sunday my husband, Greg, and I ran a trail race up, over, down, and through a canyon. Though we had expected a 4 mile course, it ended up 4.88 miles. Elevation gain: 1,738 feet -- in the first two miles. Elevation loss, 1,739 feet in the second two miles, and a continual up and down for the last .88 mile.  It was grueling ... well, it was grueling for me. The winner ran the whole thing in 27 minutes and decided to re-run it TWICE! 

Ok, I'm not a champion -- but I am a finisher; and as noble as that might sound, when you are in the middle of race, in the middle of a canyon, you really don't have much choice but to finish -- unless you are willing to camp there for the rest of your life. Lesson from the trail: running out of steam doesn't have to mean quitting.

Greg and I like to hike as well as run trails. We often joke about "ranger miles." When trying out new trails, we will often first consult the Park Rangers regarding the conditions, attractions, availability, etc. of the trails, and of course, we always check to see how long the trail is. Invariably the hike turns out to be MUCH longer than anticipated. We have determined that Rangers measure miles differently than our GPS does -- thus, "ranger miles." Sometimes a trail run ends up being measured by ranger miles as well. It always brings a chuckle at the end of the race when the organizers confess that the 5 or 10K was really "a bit" more than "official." We all shake our heads knowingly and pat each other -- or ourselves -- on the back for having survived so well. So last Sunday on the trail it wasn't a complete shock to me when breathless and a bit worse for the wear, I hit the 4 mile marker with no finish line in site. But when I faced yet another incline I seriously considered making my new home on that trail. 

Sometimes in life just when we think we are nearing the end of a long haul, up pops a new hill, and the finish line is nowhere in sight. If we become complacent or fatalistic we will choose to just "live" there; to give up, to surrender to the situation. At those times we must determine to see past the hill, and know that the finish line is out there -- around the next turn, or even past yet another hill, but it is there. Complacency will lead to cynicism, frustration, and ultimately hopelessness. But determination will be rewarded at the end. 

As I stumbled toward the goal, around the next turn I saw not the finish line, but my husband Greg, who had already finished the race. He had come back on the trail to encourage me on to the end. Scripture tells us, 

Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, Hebrews 12:1

On the trail there are volunteers who hand us water, and cheer us on, "only 1 more mile to go" [Arg! You have GOT to be kidding, "only" and "mile" do not belong in the same sentence!], "you're almost there," "you're doing a great job," "oops, not that way -- this way" [but my way goes down, you're pointing UP ☹]. And sometimes, a friend or husband who has already completed the race comes back and helps spur us on. 

When we find ourselves in the middle of the trail with no steam, it's time to reach out to those who can encourage and direct us. And when we find ourselves finished with a race, it's time to volunteer to reach out to those still running. Remember, the food and the prizes are waiting at the finish line.