Monday, March 16, 2009

Lessons from the Trail: Running Together

My friend Pam sent the following observations about my last entry re: Lessons from the Trail: Finish or Camp? I wrote about how my husband had come back on the trail to encourage me after he had already run his race. Pam wrote,
Greg’s love was a picture of God and how He is there, not always rescuing us OUT of the situation but making sure we know he’s there, he is with us, he cares that life is hard, we are not alone, we are loved… no we are cherished and at the moment we know we are cherished, our perspective feels so different. Life can still be tough but we are of value, loved and cherished by the one we love. In the moments when things are good between husband and wife it is a picture, maybe a glimmer, of our relationship with God.
Even though I was not in my best shape (I have previously confessed that I am carrying extra pounds, and have not been faithful to working out and taking care of myself the best I can) when Greg came back on that trail he came to encourage me -- not to deride me for not being in better shape or for not being better prepared for this race; nor to point out my weaknesses; he didn't come to carry me to the finish-line or "excuse me" from finishing (which frankly I would have accepted at that moment, but have regretted later) -- he  simply came out of love, to encourage and empower me to finish the race before me. That is what God does for us. He meets us where we are, and asks us if we want to run with Him. 

What's your answer? 

Saturday, March 14, 2009

Lessons from the Trail: Finish or Camp?

Now finish the work, so that your eager willingness to do it may be matched by your completion of it, according to your means. 2 Corinthians 8:11

Last Sunday my husband, Greg, and I ran a trail race up, over, down, and through a canyon. Though we had expected a 4 mile course, it ended up 4.88 miles. Elevation gain: 1,738 feet -- in the first two miles. Elevation loss, 1,739 feet in the second two miles, and a continual up and down for the last .88 mile.  It was grueling ... well, it was grueling for me. The winner ran the whole thing in 27 minutes and decided to re-run it TWICE! 

Ok, I'm not a champion -- but I am a finisher; and as noble as that might sound, when you are in the middle of race, in the middle of a canyon, you really don't have much choice but to finish -- unless you are willing to camp there for the rest of your life. Lesson from the trail: running out of steam doesn't have to mean quitting.

Greg and I like to hike as well as run trails. We often joke about "ranger miles." When trying out new trails, we will often first consult the Park Rangers regarding the conditions, attractions, availability, etc. of the trails, and of course, we always check to see how long the trail is. Invariably the hike turns out to be MUCH longer than anticipated. We have determined that Rangers measure miles differently than our GPS does -- thus, "ranger miles." Sometimes a trail run ends up being measured by ranger miles as well. It always brings a chuckle at the end of the race when the organizers confess that the 5 or 10K was really "a bit" more than "official." We all shake our heads knowingly and pat each other -- or ourselves -- on the back for having survived so well. So last Sunday on the trail it wasn't a complete shock to me when breathless and a bit worse for the wear, I hit the 4 mile marker with no finish line in site. But when I faced yet another incline I seriously considered making my new home on that trail. 

Sometimes in life just when we think we are nearing the end of a long haul, up pops a new hill, and the finish line is nowhere in sight. If we become complacent or fatalistic we will choose to just "live" there; to give up, to surrender to the situation. At those times we must determine to see past the hill, and know that the finish line is out there -- around the next turn, or even past yet another hill, but it is there. Complacency will lead to cynicism, frustration, and ultimately hopelessness. But determination will be rewarded at the end. 

As I stumbled toward the goal, around the next turn I saw not the finish line, but my husband Greg, who had already finished the race. He had come back on the trail to encourage me on to the end. Scripture tells us, 
Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, Hebrews 12:1
On the trail there are volunteers who hand us water, and cheer us on, "only 1 more mile to go" [Arg! You have GOT to be kidding, "only" and "mile" do not belong in the same sentence!], "you're almost there," "you're doing a great job," "oops, not that way -- this way" [but my way goes down, you're pointing UP ]. And sometimes, a friend or husband who has already completed the race comes back and helps spur us on. 

When we find ourselves in the middle of the trail with no steam, it's time to reach out to those who can encourage and direct us. And when we find ourselves finished with a race, it's time to volunteer to reach out to those still running. Remember, the food and the prizes are waiting at the finish line.

Friday, March 6, 2009

Lessons from the Trail: The Race Before Us

Hebrews 12:1   ... let us run with endurance the race that is set before us

My husband and I like to trail run... well, he likes to trail run, I like to trail run/walk/gasp/creep. We also like to compete in races. He usually medals in the top three; I sometimes luck out and am the only competitor in my age group. Lately, I've come to realize that there are some valuable lessons to be learned on the trail. 

The writer of Hebrews tells us to run with endurance the race before us. Lesson number 1: you can't change the route of the race come race day; and you can't win the race without sticking to the route. 

We don't often have a choice of the path we're on -- yes, our decisions and circumstances impact our life's journey, but often, we simply end up on a path we didn't plan on. Regardless of how we got here, the path we're on is the path we have to run. Finishing the race requires staying focused on the trail, on the next step, on not stumbling, or wandering off,  but enduring to the finish line. The trail can seem endless sometimes, with so many twists and turns it is easy to get frightened and frustrated. But giving up isn't an option, changing trails isn't possible, wishing for an easier terrain or pretending that you are on a different path only prolongs the inevitable. To finish the race, you have to continue on. 

Tomorrow morning we have another race. Four miles through, up, and down a canyon. I'm not really in shape -- lately I've put on some extra pounds, sloughed off training, and haven't worked out in weeks, but the race is tomorrow, and tomorrow I must run it. Sometimes, running with endurance means just doing the best you can with what you have. 


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Robyn Henk, author of B.L.E.S.S.E.D, discovering God’s bigger dream for you, wife of 38 years, mother of six grown children, and grandmother of three. The experience of God’s gracious love and provision in her life has led to her passion of bringing women into deeper intimacy with God, and fuller understanding of God’s love and providence for their lives. She has attended classes in Theology and Christian Ministry at Golden Gate Baptist Seminary, as well as researching The Geographic and Archeological History of the Bible in Israel and Rome, with Azusa Pacific University. Robyn has spoken on three continents and developed and spoke at the Women of Purpose Conference in Kiev, Ukraine; Kitale, Kenya; and to the Lakota and Dine’ First Nations in America. She has also taught Spiritual Disciplines, Parenting, Christian Leadership for Women, and Teaching for Significance clinics.